Speeches and toasts are very traditional parts during a wedding. Everybody is used to hearing the father of the bride speech, groom’s speech, best man, and the maid/matron of honor. However, in recent times the bride has stepped forward as well with her bride’s speech, verbalizing her feelings for a very special day in her life. And why not, she is indeed one of the most special persons celebrating the occasion –it is but fair to let her have her piece of “say”.

Although there are many brides who can easily speak their thoughts, and adding to the fact that a bride’s speech doesn’t really have “formalized rules” about its content, preparing for the speech is still advisable. And even if every bride can express their selves uniquely, some things must always be included in bride speeches. Learn some helpful tips on delivering a great brides’ speech.

Always Place The “Thank Yous” In Order

Thanking people who have made the occasion possible and wonderful is inevitable in speeches. The key is putting them in order to avoid monotony. Thank guests for coming, as well as give special thanks for people who have traveled far just to attend the wedding. Give special mention to those who could not attend because of extenuating circumstances. This is also the bride’s chance to thank people who have given something for the wedding such as handmade or homemade items, or participated in special ways.

Keep in mind that weddings have increasingly become expensive for guests as well; from the wedding gift, to the travel expenses, and even to purchasing the required apparel. With all these in mind, a “BIG” thank you for their presence and their gifts is very much appropriate. A number of brides conclude a speech with “thank-you toast” for their guests.

“Preparation” Makes Perfect

As always, being prepared for the speech will make it perfect. Preparing means spending enough time not only to think about the speech’s content, but the particular words that will be used as well. Since there are no set “etiquettes” and “rules” for a bride speech, the opportunity can be used for telling amusing events that happened before the wedding. The stories can also include mentioning the names of as many people who are present –every person feels good when they hear their names mentioned. Whether the stories will circle on pre-wedding glitches or pre-wedding parties, the motto is a “light-hearted” speech.


Don’t’ Forget Your Groom

The bride’s speech will be an excellent moment to give the groom –your husband- a personal message. Expressing whatever it is that binds you strongly, and all the other thoughts and feelings that you want to share with him on your special day must be a special part of your speech.

Honoring Your Parents

The speech is also a great chance for a bride to share more serious thoughts with friends and families. This will be the best chance to honor your parents by explaining the things learned from their constant advices and their examples; of course, thank them for the special role they played for your wedding. In the same way, your new “mom and dad” should also be offered words of recognition and thanks –this will be an opportunity to set the stage for the future relationship you’ll have with them.

Never Repeat What Has Been Said By Previous Speeches

This will involve last minute revisions after hearing the others speeches. If it’s not too much trouble, coordinate with those who would be giving speeches in advance. Remember, you have the advantage of “no-rules” speech, so you’ll have all the flexibility for your speech –just don’t repeat what they have talked about. Finally, be mindful of the length, the style, and the content of your speech.

The bride’s speech is usually given after everybody else has said their piece. Nevertheless, it’s a great opportunity for the bride to express herself and give her sincerest thanks to everyone as well.